What if Martian's could speak Venusian?

"If all people could speak in one tongue imagine the possibilites man could achieve..."

Man could achieve many things as long as they work together as one. Imagine if each person living on Earth could understand one another without any language barrier would the world be a better place? Could you just imagine what man can achieve without having the problem of miscommunication? A prime example would be a story from the Bible, the great Tower of Babel. During those times man spoke in one tongue, so there wasn't any problem of miscommunication. They were united as one working together and through that they decided to build a great tower that would reach towards the heavens. They believe that by building this tower they would be able to talk to God. God saw the wicked ways of man and was resentful of their actions. God confuse man with different tongues and the construction of the tower could never be completed because man couldn't understand one another. From there man spread out across the Earth and began building their own nations.

If man didn't have any language barrier or the problem of miscommunication they would have completed the tower in no time. Imagine the great possibilites if people could understand one another.

"If a Martian could speak Venusian, what could possibly happen?"

Man and woman are two different beings. Men are considered to be more practical, straight forward and rational while women on the otherhand tends to be more emotional. These are two different people but are also alike in some ways. The question is why do male and females often argue with each other?

The inspiration of this article was from the book entitled "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". This book talks about the differences shared between man and woman and how they often argue and fight. If man could understand woman and vice versa could hurtful confrontations be avoided?

In this article i would be siting out a few examples on how good communication and by understanding our opposite counterpart could help avoid fights and achieve growth in the same time. I believe that this book is very helpful especially for couples and would also benefit to the singles as well. By understanding our partners we would learn to love them more, respect them for who they are and become more appreciative to each other.

"Women seeks attention while men seeks appreciation..."

The tendency when women get upset over something they become very aggravated and finds a way to release their stress by talking to someone they love. Women by nature loves to talk and releases their stress through conversations and girls are always very supportive to each other (emotional support that is). But sometimes when a girl tries telling the guy about her bad day she tends to flare up not because of the guy but because she's unhappy. Guys usually get defensive by her actions and reacts to her. A guy feels blamed but honestly girls just want that certain someone to listen to their problems rather than lecturing them for what they did. If a guy knew why her love one is feeling agro (short term for aggravated) he would try to listen to her problems and give loving support to her which at the end the girl feels love and important.

Women loves having attention while men loves being appreciated for what they do. When a guy loves someone they always give their best and always go the extra mile. Because when a guy loves someone he never thinks of himself but for the persons he loves. The tendency for men they want to feel appreciated for what they do because its important for us guys that the person we love feels comfortable and happy in the things we do for them.

These are just few examples of what this book has to offer. Just by understanding each person differences we could achieve growth and learn to appreciate each other more. By talking things out could avoid hurtful confrontations but we must also remember that fighting could also promote growth between couples. I used to believe fighting in a relationship can always be avoided but fights do come and go whether we like it or not. Fighting in a relationship could only lead to two things. The growth of your relationship or its death, you decided (this doesn't just apply with couples but even with our relationship with our friends and familes as well). How we communicate with each other is very important because communication is the key to a successful relationship.

So remember whenever when we talk or argue with our female/male companions, be open to one another and be patient on each other short comings. No ones perfect even i have my number of short comings as well and so does everyone else but understanding and appreciating our differences we can attain a more positive outlook in life.